16 – 18 August
As the lights rise on the Alma Theatre, I’m Sexy and I Know It ensnares the audience with its blend of fearless introspection and unabashed celebration, set against an infectious 90’s soundtrack. Anna Friend is here, not just to perform, but to unpack a lifetime of beauty standards and self-doubt with an authenticity that’s as compelling as it is comedic. The performance thrives on a cacophony of honest revelations as Anna delves into the raw realities of her experiences with desire, and the societal pressures that shape them.
The stage is a playful echo of the past, cluttered with props like tutus, inflatable guitars, and an extendable He-Man penis (if you know how to use it), framing Anna’s narrative journey through nostalgia and self-discovery. On this sparse yet evocative stage, Anna’s magnetic presence pulls the audience into her world where early struggles and triumphs unfold with engaging honesty.
Anna’s storytelling is immediate and gripping. She skillfully traverses the complexities of early puberty, body acceptance, and emerging identity with a narrative fluency that turns personal history into universal revelation. Her seamless transitions from reflective moments to bursts of humour not only entertain but resonate deeply, reflecting the messiness of life with sharp wit.
From recounting awkward first dances to navigating the trials of love and acceptance, Anna brings everyone into the fold with stories that are both intensely personal and relatable. Her discussions—whether it’s about the unrealistic expectations placed on women’s bodies, her chaotic sexual explorations, or her journey of embracing her queer identity—eschew clichéd narratives. Instead, she offers an unfiltered look at the pressures and prejudices, balanced with a joyous celebration of self-discovery.
The show crescendos in a vibrant finale that celebrates personal truth and queer joy, affirming life’s rich and complex tapestry. This powerful affirmation of Anna’s journey from uncertainty to bold, unreserved self-love invites the audience to reflect on their own narratives.
The climax of the show is not just an ending but a declaration of independence from societal expectations, embracing oneself fully and joyously. It’s a powerful statement that what is truly sexy is knowing and loving oneself, flaws and all.
★★★★☆ Tilly Marshall, 17 August 2024
